Protecting your child: When your ex’s new partner raises concerns

As a parent, your child’s safety is your highest priority. When your ex introduces a new partner into your child’s life, feeling apprehensive is natural. If you have reasons to believe this new person might pose a risk to your child, you’re not powerless. California law provides several options to safeguard your child’s well-being. Let’s explore some steps you can take to address your concerns and protect your child.

How can you request a background check on your ex’s new partner?

While you can’t legally demand a background check on your ex’s new partner, you can:

• Hire a private investigator to conduct a legal background check
• Search public records for criminal history
• Look up sex offender registries

Remember, you need to obtain any information you need through legal means. If you find information that is concerning, document it carefully. This evidence could be crucial if you need to take legal action.

Can you modify your custody agreement?

Yes, you can request a modification to your custody agreement if you have valid concerns. Here’s what you need to know:

• File a Request for Order with the court
• Provide evidence supporting your concerns
• The court will consider the child’s best interests

The judge may order supervised visitation or limit contact between your child and your ex’s new partner if they believe it’s necessary for your child’s safety.

What if you need immediate court intervention?

If you believe your child is in immediate danger, don’t wait. You can take these steps:

• File for an emergency custody order
• Provide clear evidence of the threat to your child’s safety
• The court can make temporary orders without a full hearing

Remember, false allegations can seriously backfire, so ensure your concerns are well-founded and not based on your feelings.

How can legal guidance help protect your child?

Going through a divorce is already difficult, but having to deal with a potentially unstable third party that can seriously affect your children is something you should focus on. Talking with an attorney can help you understand what you can do as a legal guardian under California law. You can get much-needed help through the legal process, gather and present evidence effectively, and advocate for your child’s best interests in court. With professional legal support, you can take confident steps to protect your child while adhering to the law.